Parents often have their own reasons for wanting their children in sports, but when those motives conflict with the child’s, it can create a negative experience. Problems arise when winning becomes the focus, when kids are pushed to specialize too early, or when parents live through their children’s achievements. The healthiest outcome happens when kids play for their own enjoyment—fun—rather than external pressures. When sport is about personal reward, children are more likely to stay engaged, grow, and avoid burnout.